My H just called briefly. He sounded hurt and upset. I think what the OW did to him *with the OM* is REALLY hurting him. Now for some odd reason I am not offended . . but my heart breaks for him. I am unsure as to what course of action I should take here . . . if he wants to talk about it . . . do I say something or what the heck do I do? HELP . . this is weird!