I need some advice fast!! My husband has not been out with his friends since December 05 (I discovered his A in 10/05). He said that he stopped seeing them because I don’t like some of them, which is true. I don’t like them because they were privy to his A and they even helped him come up with lies to tell me and then they would cover for him. He expressed that he misses the comrade and would like to see them. I can understand this because he hasn’t gone anywhere or visited with friends since the bomb was dropped! He isn’t the type of guy to be gone every weekend (only the time during his A). He just likes to hang out with the guys every now and then. He recently got in touch with them and now he wants to go to a BBQ tomorrow. He did include me and asked if I wanted to go. I do NOT want to go. And I don’t want him to feel like he can’t go anywhere anymore. But I’m afraid if he goes then it will lead to him wanting to hang out with them every time there is something going on. I don’t want to behave like his parent and tell him what he can and cannot do….
Any advice from you guys out there would truly be appreciated!!!!
I don't know how to past my prior sitch, but it was: Forgive and Start the Healing Process
