I've been away for awhile dealing with my own "crap" and I've been thinking about everyone alot, wondering how you all are and WHAM! look what Chrome is up to.
I have to say that I am speechless. I'm going to have to think on this one for awhile.
I will say this for right now. I do understand the need for love and adoration. I understand how easy it is to seek out that emotional connection from the opposite sex and how easy it is to get wrapped up in an EA. BUT, it's your decision to make. You've been in TWO EA's since being on this board. You need to say right now that you don't need love, adoration, etc. from anyone BUT your wife, children and family. If your R not doing it for you, LEAVE YOUR WIFE and have some respect for her and your kids. Not only do YOU DESEARVE to be happy, but she desearves a husband who is content with her the way she is.
On a softer note. I have really come to care about a lot of people on this board and worry about them and their stich's. You are one of them. Thinking about your sitch is what brought me back to check on everyone. I know you'll get through this, whatever it may bring. Please be honest with yourself and your wife. Doing what's right isn't always the easiest thing.
Nicky
"There are two types of people -- those who come into a room and say, 'Well, here I am,' and those who come in and say, 'Ah, there you are.'"
Frederick Collins
