You said what I was trying to say much more directly and eloquently. I need help emotionally in SO many areas, and one of them is dealing with another person's pain, especially when I am the cause. Part of the reason I am in the mess that I am in now is that I have never been able to deal with another person being emotionally distraught. I do all the wrong things when that happens. So letting an MC know the situation and helping me get my head on straight on how to deal with it does seem wise. Plus it can only strengthen me down the road, wherever that road leads. My W deserves the best I can give her, and I haven't been doing that. I can do it, with some help.
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"