PS. GEL is a wise woman and made a great point. (btw, hi GEL and thanks for the welcome ) When you talk to your wife about this, come from a place of letting her feel her emotions and ask her questions in a safe place with you. Don't fall into the trap of diminishing her by explaining why it happened. All she will hear is that you are blaming her.
Bear
The voyage of discovery is not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.
--Marcel Proust
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