hey,
If it helps we all FAILED relationships 101 - but we took the time to go back and re learn what we missed

and it all begins with Family of Origin issues..they were not all bad - we just made some conclusions based on our experience that need to be revisited

Good on you - hang in there for you and your kids



God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; (Life, the Universe, other people) courage to change the things I can;(me, my attitudes, my behaviour, my reactions) and wisdom to know the difference