Chrome,

I have been mulling over what to say. I am sorry that things have gone from bad to worse in your situation. I urge you to follow Nops advice - you cannot simultaneously work on your M and spend emotional energy on other women, even "friends". Things are just prone to getting out of control. Recognize it and do something about it. The best of luck to you, Mrs. Chrome and the little ones.

LFL,

The best of luck to you. I'm sorry you have not found what you were looking for here or in your M.

Karen