Chrome, WTF? I thought you had cut off contact with OW, but now you tell us not only hadn't you done that, but you were also on the prowl here???? We're here to help you, but you gotta put it all on the table for us. The anonymity(hmm, I know that isn't spelled right) of the board is perfect for that since you shouldn't have to worry about someone tagging your info with the RL you...of course unless you've posted your picture here and told everyone who you are
Anyway, it sounds like you need to stay here more than ever. Do come clean with us, and don't be hiding anything or we can't help you a bit. So put that monster back in your shorts, no one but your W gets to see it or even hear about it for now on. Cut off the contact with OW and the private emails to whoever it is here you decided to hit on. You can't fix your marriage if you attention is directed elsewhere. NOPkins will probably tell you to come clean with your W as well, and I think he'd recommend a book titled something like "Not Just Friends". I'll let him chime in on that. If you want your marriage to work, you've got to take the first step in cleaning up the mess you've made, and that starts with being totally open and honest with your lovely W. It's gonna hurt, and you might lose her in the process, but this is somehting YOU have to do. Best of luck there guy, and we're here to support you (but lay off the private emails to the F's here)
