JM- What about her world veiw scares you? And as for happiness ok so your right we are not entiteld to it from birth, but every one has a chance in life to be happy. Happiness is not given it is worked for day and night. It is an unending strugle to live your life the way you want it. Now i as well have a SO (love this). Now you all can bash me. For my W and i have come to an agrement after 10 years of friendship 5 of that married. and that was why the hell did we get married. my married life was ok to not good to down right bad. We did the counseling the retriets and all that we could. We worked hard to save our M. But what we found was that it did not need to be saved it needed to go away. But not all people are like me, though we do all make mistakes. H2H you hang in there i have a fealing every thing will work it self out, take care of your self and do what you need to do to stay safe. And shame on him for selling the cats, bad bad bad(im an animal junkie)consider your self hugged. JM you can bash away now, ask anything and i will fill you in on the details.
