whatisis I don't want to take away from H2H at all, but I guess we agree.
Life sux. It's not a fairy tale, it's not fun. Some will go through it unharmed. Others will not. There is no rhyme or reason.
That's when I get a bit miffed, but those who feel a "right" to be happy. F^ck that. All you can do is try to do your best and help others. If happiness happens DAMN that's a BONUS.