Jokerman I love your ideas around happiness. Why is it so many people seem to believe that their happiness is so much more important than the happiness of those around them? If I can only be 75% happy but maintain a stable and healthy environment for my kids, why wouldn't I? Oh ya, I have the right to be happy!You are right to some degree happiness is a choice. My sitch is kind of shitty but I have chosen to be as happy as I can be. Because of that attitude I can still enjoy my family and grow as a person. Happiness doesn't happen to you, you happen to happiness. Wow, did that even make sense! Living for ME alone does not bring happiness. It's just more romantic crap. That finishes my rant for today.
