Gel, I do have a few questions for you if you don't mind. I am asking you because you were the one person who seemed to understand. H still seems to have these fantisies about me having sex with another man while he watches. It does not bother me as much as it did when he first mentioned it, but this is one thing that has not changed. Even though we are doing much better in our realationship issues, he still brings this up. It does not bother me like it did before when there were other issues, but for him it still seems important. I have done things like having him watch while we are having sex and talking to him etc.. I guess I am just trying to figure out what I can do. Everything else is great. Is there any advice you have for this? I am the HD one and even though my H wants to sometimes... well he has some issues. That does not bother me as much as the wanting to see me have sex with someone else. I guess I just want to know if this is normal. I don't want to see him have sex with another woman... why would he want to see this? Well, GEL or any one who might have an opinion on this...
Its not about getting what you want, its about wanting what you already have.
