I have not been on this board for almost a year now. Some of it has been rocky, but for the most part, the advice I received from black foot, lillie, chrissy & jak as well as many others helped me beyond belief. Long story short. My husband and I are together again, stronger than ever. Counseling did help but I think the advice I received here helped even more. Thank you to eveyone who helped me through a part of my life that i really hope I will never have to go through again.My H still has his fantisies, but I have learned to work them into our sex life. His midlife crisis seems to have gone away. I am just going with that and am happy with our life we have right now. I guess sometimes things do work out... just wait
Its not about getting what you want, its about wanting what you already have.
