Hello, Thank you very much for your encouragement.
You are absolutely right. I am responsible for my happiness and self-worth and I have put that in God's hands. Who could be better then the Great I Am?
Things are not improving with DR or DB. I have read both books several times and am trying the 180's and tips. Nothing is working w/H. He only seems to be getting angrier and angrier. I am detaching and not backing down. I can't live with a man who does not want me or love me.
My H likes his other women to much and will not give them up. I am starting to be o.k. with that because I know I'll be alright. He someday will have to look in the mirror as well and decide if he can live with himself. It will never be any easier with anyone else. All relationships have their ups and downs and if everyone realized that, there would not be a board like this.
I am truly thankful that I have this board and many thanks to all of you posting here. You have become a lifeline in a time of turbulance, considerable confusion, sadness and grief.
If any one has any 180's dealing with a cheating spouse that would be greatly appreciated. I have read the books and nothing is helping. I want my marriage to work although I can no longer say I love my H. I have 3 children to consider and want whats best for them. They love their dad so very much..
