Jade,
I kind of went on a rant there. As far as what you can do...take care of yourself. Your H may or may not get the slap in the face that I did. My W was upset when I left, I actually told her to take care of herself and she did. Her strength and stability was one of the things that brought me to where I am now.
If your H does not come back, you will need the strength for what lies ahead.
Good luck.
Not sure it will help or not, but I posted the details of my affair on the Newcomers board. read and weep...or hate
