Do not ever cave into her. YOU need to be consistent. You need to stand up to her. Do not ever do things to accomodate her and keep her happy. Do not try to avoid anger. She wants a man that stands up for himself, that is DECISIVE, and that will not take crap from her. It seems that women constantly are testing their men to make sure they are real men in their eyes. You need to be the ROCK in her life.