Thanks. W & I had that convo today about needing to "do" something about S3. We WILL do that starting today, I promise.
As for the "night out" I have been pushing for that and have talked at length about that issue throughout my many threads. Suffice to say that it's a work in progress.
As for the babysitter in the day, well, she won't have to do that after tomorrow. They will both be back in school, then she will have all the "her" time she needs to do... well, whatever. Great. We saw how that went the last time she had free time...