Muddle, I don't really have time today to go into detail but I think your post was right on as usual and you asked some important questions that ARE helping me. Thanks. I especially love your philosophical part at the end. I really think this is key to a LOT of this, that is, understanding the difference between, as my C calls it, living in your head and living in the real world, i.e. living/BEING in the moment. I think MOST of us spend our lives in our own head.