Yeah, have to agree on the entitlement/transparency issue here. Jeez, especially b/c you just bought her a ROCK dude.
Anyway, my H is willing to give me his cell records and I have passwords to all his email accounts to spot check as necessary. He takes me anywhere he'll have to meet with a female client, or makes sure he's never alone with one.
HE initiated these things in order to regain my trust and show that I have nothing to worry about - that's what he told me when he did it. Your W doesn't seem to get that, as if you should just sweep it under the rug and trust her ... just because?
I'm trying to like her, GH, but she's still p*ssing me off in her attitude that you should just suck it up? WTH? If the roles were reversed here, how do you think she would handle this?
Happy Monday! Glad to see you posting. Even when things are better, they still come up and bite you in the hind end (see today's post on my thread). You are already stronger than I was at the same point in my R, so I know you'll emerge triumphant eventually.
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3