WOW, GH! You go with it. She is making it very clear that she wants your marriage. Does she bounce around like this often? It's like a total turnaround??? In a short time frame. I'd be confused, thrilled and scared too. I'm thinking your little blowout with her maybe had some effect (I've had some experience in that myself recently!) don't worry about disappointing the peanut gallery here. We're thrilled for you. If you need us, we're here. P.S. Just don't push for too much too soon. She's still got some stuff to sort out no matter how postitive she presents right now. Take what you can get and build on it. 'nuff said!!