Thanks Mamabear, it's good to know I'm helping. GH has been a good friend to many in this forum and I thought it time to help out. I'm glad my style is being appreciated! My w says I am sometimes too blunt with her and I pledged to try and change that in our interactions. But that means she has to let me know when I do it as sometimes I'm going to miss it. That means working together, something she has difficulty fathoming. Anyway, I'm glad my style is creating a light touch as it is intended to do. We all have our pitfalls and GH you are indeed very angry, rightfully so. How is it that spouses don't seem to get that infidelity is the most hurtful thing one can do to your spouse. It's not like she hid the remote and told you she didn't know where it is, she betrayed you!!!Of course, the remote would be serious (to us guys) but betrayal, WOW! I guess they just have to handle the guilt in some way and denial has worked for human beings for ages so why not here. Trust me, they don't want to hear about your hurt, they know it but can't face it, so they deny it. It's truly maddening but what is is.
