Whatis, you crack me up, and I'm not trying to be disrepectful. You tell it like it is - hence, your name. I like your advice. Keep it coming...
Gh, I know you said you are listening to stuff on anger management, but you my friend, sound very angry, as you should be BUT you need to divert it. Not stuff it down, but it is not coming off in a good way and if I can sense it your W can too. Just my thoughts - please don't kill the messenger.
I understand, you are SO frustrated. As far as you are concerned this Sh*t has gone on long enough. You want to beat your W over the head and yell at her, "do you not get it, THIS is life!!!! Yes, sometimes it sucks!!! Who is to say that with anyone else it would be different? It wouldn't. There are always going to be bills, not enough money, diapers, bills, not enough money, laundry, long grass, pets, bills, not enough money........EVERYONE has these same problems!!!! If you think leaving me and getting hooked up will end these problems you are sadly mistaken!!!!"
Sorry for the rant. I luv ya GH, and as a woman I would be proud to call you my husband. Your wife doesn't know what a good man she has. I can't say that too many men would walk in your shoes. Hopefully, she will stop being so self absorbed and selfish and realize what a wonderful H and family she has. I'm sorry to say this, but she doesn't deserve you. I truely hope that by the end of this year she is kissing your feet, literally. She should be thanking the stars above that you didn't leave her high and dry, like most men would. This shows me what a wonderful and forgiving person AND father you are.
If you are not shooting a wedding this weekend, spend time with your boys. They are your world!!! They are young and innocent and just love their mommy and daddy. They are sponges. Have Fun and forget about all of your troubles. Take care, Mamabear..aka Ms. Grin & Bear It...aka...Strongbear