GH, A quick example from my pathetic little existence! Over the past 1.5 years my w has shown little interest in anything I do. Any achievement is met with a shrug or complete disinterest. I had mentioned that it would be nice if she could at least show some interest in my life regardless of her love or lack of love for me. That fell on deaf ears. A few weeks after our blowout I had gone to a ballgame (cuz I wanted to and she agreed to watch the kids) and when I came home I was met with "How was the game, who played, what was the score, where did you sit etc." I thought "where the hell is my wife?!" My point being that previously it would be very easy to dwell on what she was not giving me and every time she didn't ask I could get all worked up, but I didn't. I had to be my own fan club. Was this a turning point? Who knows, but if not I will live on. Certainly it felt damn good for a long while after that. Maybe one day, if you avoid those little anger traps, your w will suddenly have called the babysitter. Then you will know something is working. Lastly, if she isn't physically intimate with you continue db'ing and try different things, see if anything lights her fire. I noticed in your previous post she said something like "You haven't asked about what's going on here". Do you inquire? Ask her about her day etc. Maybe just a small thing like that might be the turning point. Again, she can buy a ring but it don't mean nuthin till there's some action. Women sometimes don't get that sex equals love to guys in a relationship.It's how we gauge that we are still OK. If you do me then you love me. We men sometimes forget that to women that ain't the case. She'll touch you when she's ready GH, don't push that one. Anyway, we all blow it sometimes, big deal, but as long as she's still there then there is something she wants and you are a part of that something. Take it slow and take in a few ballgames!!! All the best.
