GH, I like the way you're headed ... no more tiptoeing, more honesty. If she wants to repair the M (and it is up to her to do her share), then she needs to recognize that she needs to be accountable to you. She needs to realize that SHE is going to have to put forth some effort to regain your trust.

I don't really see that she is doing anything to work on the M. Buying a new ring for herself does not constitute working on herself or working on the M. If you let her off the hook without doing anything, GH, then you're going to end up with the same kind of relationship you had before, and I know you don't want that.


The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)