Thanks. The truth is that this babysitter is someone my W knows and I have tried to get her number before. It's not really been an issue except that, like I have said in the past, I have tried, even so far to arrange for a sitter, only to have W squash the plans. She is a real control freak when it comes to things about the kids. She has to know the person, etc. Anyway, I did tell her I would arrange it and as usual, she said "no" she would do it but then again...when. This is an ongoing struggle. It won't be solved overnight.
