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Thanks guys. Like I said, I am going radio silent for a few days at least. I am just posting that you should not worry about me. I'm fine and know what I need to do. I just need to take time off from thinking about this stuff so much. It's obviously not gotten me very far.
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Kind of stumped on why you say it hasn't gotten you far. Seems like you have been making good progress thus far. Sorry that your W has backslided, but that is allowed for her just like it is allowed for you right?

I mean looking at your sitch you have gotten your W to recommit, albeit half heartedly to your R. Wasn't there a time when W would say that there is no way in heck that it was going to work?

Something you have been doing is working, figure it out and do more of the same. You can't throw out your optimism and patience when you have come so far. Look at the bright side so to speak, now you know why the intimacy has been an issue, she has been grieving the OM and the fantasy of the R she had with him. Kind of all make sense now don't ya think?

Anyway, take care of yourself, keep working on your self, regardless of what happens you will find someone that can appreciate all that you have to offer. Hopefully it will be the person you want it to be now.


"Our life is what our thoughts make it." Marcus Aurelius