SHEE-IT. I am distraught (sp?) for you, GH. I came on tonight to post about a new wrinkle in my sitch but I always check yours first. Must be in the water.
I am sickened over your pain, and the ripping open of this wound by your WTF-is-she-doing wife. I am SO SO sorry. I just don't have any words for this kind of stuff, but I feel it in my gut for you.
Do not be terrified; for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go. (Joshua 1:9)
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3