hey sven, thanks for your input, I am guilty of making my H feel insignificant, like he can do things right half the time, so much stuff to unlearn. I do get too upset over little things still. I'm getting that book, it's been ordered, can't wait to read it! The bit about the connection got to me, it baffled lately me how I made myself available to him and flirt and ...nothing! from a man who wouldnt' leave me alone every chance he got. I see now that the connection isn't there for him yet, thus, the desire isnt' there either, (can you see the light bulb above my head flickering?)
You learn something every day, guess I yet need more helpings of patience .
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
