I agree with Gwyn. I think you need to back off. I thought that part of the problem I was facing is that I felt like I didn't pursue my wife enough and that was part of the reason why she had an A. But the thing I realized is that there are so many emotions and thoughts going through my W's head right now that the best thing for me to do was just to back off and let her figure stuff out. If I tried to pursue her, no matter how I did it, it came off as pressuring and desperate.
