amy, i agree with you sorta, im not sujesting that she move him home right away, but remember he is young also, and he needs to have a good memory with emily and there children. her denying him that will only give him a bad taste in his mouth. i do feel she needs to allow him to swing by and see his family, the one that he is single handly destroying. i think she needs to paint a very good picture of what he will be missing, that loving women and great kids that he is leaving behind, she can not do that while refuseing him to come over and visit. i think she has to be strong enough to do this, it would be a great test for her. to show him how happy she is even with what he has told her, that she can and will survive with or with out him. but your right she needs to show him this with out any expections from it.