emily: why are you even listening to the ow. why does she call you? do you think she is feeling presure from him? she is trying to get into your head and make you pissed at him, dont you think? the first thing i would do is not anwser her calls. she is just trying to feed your head full of [censored]. lets think for a minute, your trying to bust your divorce, and yes thats why were all here right? now i propose that you do let him come over, with no expections from you, just be happy and show him what he is loosing if he dosent straighten up. COME ON why is everyone telling her to run away from this news? i dont get it, i mean emily you do want to save your marriage dont you? drop all your weapons and start being that happy women you can be around him, give him something to remember while he is gone on that lonly truck driving job he just got. trust me he is going to be lonely while working. lets not throw out bding here, its called loving detachment, not being a hard ass and give him anything, he is thinking, thats what you want right, thinking he is messing up, then fuel that fire, the fire that he is making a mistake. emily, please have him over to see you and the kids, without any expections, and just try and be happy while he is there. that what i would do.
