Emily,
take a breath and think about it. Don't go off on another emotional rollercoaster - you just got off of one. You have to detach to think clearly.
Reread your posts and the posts of others here. It's better that you realize what you have to do, then for us to tell you what to do.
Post your feelings and your plans here on the board and we'll give you input.
Just keep in mind the main principles:
- Take care of yourself
- Don't talk about the R
- If it isn't working change it. If it is working, keep doing it.
- keep a positive attitude.
- Act as if everything is fine.
You can do this.
Once you've thought about it. How do you feel deep down. Would it be positive or negative for H to see you and the girls right now?
How do you want to act if/when he comes around.
Be prepared - what happens when he comes around and has gone back to being the A$$ that he was before?
Edited because taught isn't thought!
Last edited by Sandy_wants_to_try; 07/24/0612:17 PM.
May it be eternal while it lasts.
My sitch
Me: 36
H:34
M: 5 years
Bomb: 03/14/06