Quote: I mean think about it. All us LBS's that still love our spouses and are willing at some point to let them go, to find themselves even after having years of history together. That is true love, not selfishly going out after someone who is still in another R and putting our needs 1st. Too bad H can't see forest from the trees.
I think it shoke him that I honestly lovingly let go of him. I didn't call him repeatedly and beg him to come back. When he told me he was leaving I said that was fine *and some how ment it) I let go . . . and I think it shocked him. Gave him a little shake up. . . .
NOT that it means anything . . . but I think maybe "doing something different" worked to my advantage. I did it for ME though NOT for him . . I think I am understanding what you all are saying.
Please help me know what to do. . . I feel like I'm in the damn forest . . .
