Emily, please forgive me but I didn't read the last couple days posts so I may be on a different page but...
Quote: I don't know what to do. Sit on the side lines and watch it play out. He said he wouldn't be getting remarried . . not after how badly he's screwed us up. I don't know what to think. He's going to call me again later . . . Hope all goes well.
Um, weren't you the woman who didn't want him back no matter what now? He calls, cries and now things are to the point where you "hope things go well"? Things like custody arrangments, etc, or things like him getting back with you?
My advice is the same as it always is. Don't believe today's story. Tomorrow's will be different. That's not to say he's not going to try to come home, but don't believe it until it happens and even then, it will still be rough sailing.
Oh, and BTW, weren't you the one saying he hit you, etc? Um... Guess crying works for him. I'm not trying to be a di-k here but I worry about you Emily. I worry about someone who paints their H as an abusive man who MAY try to harm his own kids and then is ready, at the drop of the hat, to let him come home.
