What?! Why was it mean? ANYONE who dates a married woman who has a new baby is a loser. How is that mean?
Edited to add, for those who aren't getting it:
Emily is hurt. The last thing she needs is to date someone. Anyone who would date her right now would only be taking advantage of her. Thus, they are a loser in my book, no better than the OP who try to break up the many marriages that are trying to be saved here on this forum.
Seperated . . soon to be divorced women. And maybe that's the cold hard truth. He would be loser. But then does that make Cassie a loser? Maybe she's what it will take to make my H happy. That makes me feel like $hit.
I didn't stop posting Amy . . . my friends have been here since two . . but they went to get dinner (and come back here and eat) so I hopped on quick.
My one friend bought me book
"Live, Laugh, Love Again" (A christian woman's survival guide to divorce).
I'll start reading it soon *maybe tomorrow*
I don't know why you see all those awful things Amy . . honestly. I ment honestly going out to a movie and maybe dinner with someone and coming home and leaving them at the door. I'm not looking for anything physical. I don't even want an emotional relationship . . really. I just want friends. . . and I always related better to the guys in highschool then the girls. I wish I had my best friend PJ around . . he and I would soak in a hot tub and talk for hours almost everynight. There was never anything sexual between us. . . we were just best friends. He helped me love myself and see myself as special. I wrote him a letter a few days and I hope he writes me back.
I'll come back around later and reply more to what was written. Thanks guys. Sorry I cocked an attitude. . . didn't mean to. I won't leave . . . I'll fight it out with you all as long as you all don't give up. Soon enough it will all come through.
Shippd . . quick . . I would LOVE for my H to come back and be my friend and work from the ground up. BUT he won't. It's over . . and I have to face that. Part of facing that is accepting that someday I will be with someone else (much as he already is.) Having those bedtime convo's saying ILY . . . all of that special stuff. . . *crying now*
Alimari . . . thanks . . . you mean a lot to me. Your post made me cry though because you said "Like a butterfly" that's what HE calls HER . . butterfly. Maybe it's symbolize a new life and a new start . . . I don't know. . . .
Anyway . . I have to go . .
Thanks guys . .
I'm going to start a new post for when this one locks . . it should soon .. .
Quote: get fixed so you can not have anymore kids please, for society, cause you are not going to accept that you have problems that you brought to your marriage, its all his and you were this great wife that loved him unconditionly. best of luck to you, you wont listen, you just said i wish he would work on this marriage, then you say i would like to date. WTF?
This REALLY hurt my feelings and made me angry. I love my girls more than ANYTHING. I can do this. Maybe I'll even meet someone who can give me that baby boy I've been waiting to see. You just don't even understand how much it broke my heart that I should "get fixed for society."
