What?! Why was it mean? ANYONE who dates a married woman who has a new baby is a loser. How is that mean?
Edited to add, for those who aren't getting it:
Emily is hurt. The last thing she needs is to date someone. Anyone who would date her right now would only be taking advantage of her. Thus, they are a loser in my book, no better than the OP who try to break up the many marriages that are trying to be saved here on this forum.
