emily: did you even listen to me? why would you want to date anyone before you figure yourself out. you have selective reading dont you! you are going to jump right into a r with the next man that looks at you. without ever fixing yourself, being dependant on him and eventually getting hurt again. if you dont stop, work on yourself first, then you are destined to fail again. DO YOU HEAR ME, YOU WILL FAIL AGAIN, and again. wow i just cannot believe you even post to us, its always about your husband, well he did this hes doing that, it never stops. i do feel your family and friends love to have you over, to have a bit@ch sesion about your husband. WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO GROW UP AND WORK ON YOURSELF. i feel sorry for your children, they do not deserve this. YOUR HUSBAND IS FUC*** UP, and i guess you are going to follow suit. your going to be in this woo me stage, take the first guy that comes around and start this whole process over again. get fixed so you can not have anymore kids please, for society, cause you are not going to accept that you have problems that you brought to your marriage, its all his and you were this great wife that loved him unconditionly. best of luck to you, you wont listen, you just said i wish he would work on this marriage, then you say i would like to date. WTF?