Quote: So . . . . why not get to live like I am 21 with kids and no H. That's where I am at. If he chooses to come back after time . . .maybe me being with some other people CASUALLY would help me appreciate him more. Who knows?
I don't know how the hell you can even think about going out on a date with a two year old and an infant. Going out with a girlfriend to a movie is one thing but going on a date at this point or even 3 months up the road is insane, IMO.
You have plenty to keep you busy and you are not "Daddy shopping".
