emily: im sorry to inform you, but YOU do know what to do, WE have all gave you advice on what to do, yea you should take alittle from me, amy, gh, and everyone else in here and make up YOU own mind on to what that is you need to do. emily you are young, smart, attractive, a mother, and yes as of this moment you are a wife, so do what you need to do. drop all your weapons towards your h, do not fight with him anymore, even if he tries, and DO NOT dangle your kids in front of him. let them get there own oppion of him in there own way.