I did yesterday . . talk about not letting him see them AT ALL.
Now it is merely I don't want him coming to MY home to do so. I believe earlier I said about meeting him at the park and taking a friend with me, or telling him he can meet us all over at my parents house so he can see them. Those types of things. I am not trying to take away his visitation rights. Not at all. I am worried that after the D and everything he will get joint custody and take them down (4 hours away from me almost) to someone elses house (we haven't had our own place to live in OVER 2 years now) I am living by myself now and have been for quite sometime. But he is contented to live with other people. I don't want girls staying in some persons basement . . dealing with a whole bunch of different people and oh I don't know. I don't think he's grown up enough to have kids by himself. He'd rather be free to go whenever he wants.
I've cooled off enough I think that I am not trying to use them against him. I'm just REALLY worried about him have joint custody (and PA is I guess a BIG joint custody state) . . I'm worried about the places he would take them to stay.
I need to stop talking about it and worrying about it. I can cross that bridge when it comes!
