Quote: Ok, and it sounds like you can't stand not to have their approval, even more than you can't stand to be unhappy. Forgive me this, but so long as you feel that way, there is yet another barrier between you and getting what YOU want. Trust me, there is a LOT of that in my sitch too and you know what? I just don't talk with my family about it, and neither does my W. It works a LOT better that way.
Agian, why come here and ask us all to help you when you know damn well that you will not take our advice if it lands you on the $hit list with your family. Why bother?
They are the only way I get around right now. They are the only people I can ask for help. Since I don't have my license I need to not be on their $hitlist.
I never talked to them about the things that were going on with my H and I when we were "working on thing" my famiy didn't really like that. But now that he's leaving me and I'm going to be going to court and such . . I thought they deserved to know. Besides they noticed that I was acting different and that I was VERY upset. I didn't feel the extreme need to lie.
I don't know why I bother GH . . I don't know if I'll ever get it right . . and coming here doesn't seem to be helping. It's only making you all mad and it makes me cry harder. . . because I don't feel that I am doing anything right.
OK gabby . . my kids will either hate me because he fills their heads with crap about me or they will hate me because I tried to do what I thought was best for them and keep them from going and living in someone elses basement with him and his OW for 4 days a month. I AM NOT TRYING TO TAKE AWAY HIS VISITATION RIGHTS. So since they'll hate me either way . . I might as well do I what I see as best.
