Moving Along OR Just Spinning My Wheels?

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Oh and by the by . . I NEVER said he was abusive towards the kids . . . so I NEVER put their safety at risk.

You've said several times that this is why you're not going to let him see them, because he's abusive and he might hurt them. You want it both ways, Emily, but that doesn't work. Either last week you were willing to put your kids' safety at risk because of your own selfish emotional needs, or he's not really an abuser and you're creating something to punish him. There is no other way.

I am NOT letting him come to my home to see MY kids. That's final.

A week ago, Emily, you were obsessed with knowing how you could forgive your H. I'm telling you right now that you need to forgive him more than ever. The hate in your heart is poisoning you and destroying you. You've quoted Bible verses some in your sitch, Emily, but I don't see any evidence of Christ in your life. You certainly don't reflect the love and forgiveness He gave you.

Do you want me to sit around and cry all day because he's left me to marry some other women or do you want me to keep telling myself I'm better off and I don't want to be with him.

That's pathetic, Emily, asking if we want you to sit around and cry all day. How dare you?!

You know what? I'm done with replying, and I'm done with reading your sitch.

You don't LISTEN to anything. You really WANT to be miserable. You want to have a bad life so that people will feel sorry for you, because in a sick way, you get off on that. Fine, but I won't be a part of it anymore.