Quote: He's better equipt to deal with that . . . he has someone to love and support him.
No, he has someone to AGREE with him and allow him to live in a fantasy land where everything is perfect.
Quote: I don't, only myself.
Bzzzzt!! Amy, straighten this girl out!
Quote: I don't feel ready to master all of this.
Ah, but it is precisely because you ARE ready that you have been given this task.
Quote: How long do D's normally take. If he files after the 28 when he gets "home" to her. . . then about how long until I see papers?
depends on the state, 3 months, 6 months, a year. Just make sure you DO NOT HELP. Do not file anything, wait as long as you can to sign anything. Do not help.
Quote: She said her lawyer advised when she(my sis) was in this situation to NOT let him see the kids.
Her lawyer is an A$$hole. Do not make your kids pay for his and your mistakes. Ever.
Quote: Until he has papers drawn up that say he has this amount of custody and he gets to see them at X time . . . he doesn't get to see them at all.
Shame on you if you do that.
Quote: In December when I got a lawyer she advised me to do the same thing.
And you wonder why our world is screwed up. Screw over the kids because mom and dad can't grow up.
