Quote: So, with your H and his fantasy, well it takes about 6 months for real life problems to interfere with the 'wonderfulness' of NO problems. Remember that he is going to be on the road a lot so he will not be giving a lot of energy to this situation. OW is going to be alone and they will both feed off the fantasy. It's stupid but it is what it is until the endorphins wear off.
Well they've been seeing each other since Jan. so that puts them together for 6 months . . . and they are hell bent that they are in love and getting married.
I don't even feel the urge to call him for me . . . The only reason I do at all would be to tell him he's not seeing his kids until I get it in writing . . . BUT that would stupid because the LONGER he waits to show interest the more it proves he doesn't love them and the LONGER I can have them worry free. If he ever shows interest in them again. We'll see!! Amy (my sis . . who reminds me SOOOO much of AmyC from here that often times I wonder if I'm not getting advice from my Amy . . . ) thinks that he just blowing smoke. She thinks he'll never actually file or fight for ANYTHING to do with the girls. He'll just go with flow and be lazy about it the way he does with everything else. I bet she's right. But I'm still scared about the whole custody sitch. Give me time to come to terms with my sitch a bit more . . and maybe it'll be better.
