Emily, stop. You are planning a fight where so far, there has only been words spoken between the two of you.
I'm telling you, this guy is NOT AT ALL LIKELY to get custody of your kids. He has NO HOME, is in an adulterous affair and has a job that keeps him on the road.
Call legal aid if he kicks up a fuss. But you also can go ahead and file for custody yourself if you want to..... BUT Emily, he's blowing smoke up your butt.
How often has he even called to check on the girls?
Did he bring diapers or formula for Kiya either time he visited?