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You'd really better take a long, hard look in the mirror before you attempt to do that because he will drag every skeleton you have into court to fight you.




He's used me as a crutch for the past 7 months so that he could make sure the OW wanted him . . now that they have marriage plans he's done with me.
He's had his cake and eaten it too.
Now he wants the ONE GOOD THING I have left.
He wants the only reason I get out of bed . . .
The only reason I have half a leg . . and part of a brain left to stand on.
HE WANTS MY GIRLS . .

I think he'd better check his closet long and hard . . . and be VERY afraid.
VERY VERY afraid.
I am trying to help him . . . I'd like him to have visitation . . if he agrees to that now . . I won't have to fight him tooth and nail for the girls. Once he gets stable he can appeal it and maybe get joint custody.
But I think he's going to make me fight this out.