Quote: You'd really better take a long, hard look in the mirror before you attempt to do that because he will drag every skeleton you have into court to fight you.
He's used me as a crutch for the past 7 months so that he could make sure the OW wanted him . . now that they have marriage plans he's done with me. He's had his cake and eaten it too. Now he wants the ONE GOOD THING I have left. He wants the only reason I get out of bed . . . The only reason I have half a leg . . and part of a brain left to stand on. HE WANTS MY GIRLS . .
I think he'd better check his closet long and hard . . . and be VERY afraid. VERY VERY afraid. I am trying to help him . . . I'd like him to have visitation . . if he agrees to that now . . I won't have to fight him tooth and nail for the girls. Once he gets stable he can appeal it and maybe get joint custody. But I think he's going to make me fight this out.