I am VERY worried about my kids being with him. I understand that they are his kids too. He is mean . . . . abusive mean. I would just hate if they had to endure that. I can't prove it . . . and if I tried to bring it up in court . . . he would probably try to lie his way out or he would probably try to turn those tables on me. (Which let me add here would be total bullshit)
He's never touched on of the kids wrong (I would have left him in a heartbeat) but since Felina was a year and half old she's bawled anytime he raised his voice (which was quite often). This past weekend he started acting like he always use to with me. Being mean . . . and she was upset. My parents took her for a few hours (like they almost always do) and they commented on how unsettled she was. They said all she would do is cry and she didn't want to do any of the things that she normally LOVES to do.
I've been thinking A LOT about it . . . and I he can't even have a civil convo. with me. Would he treat them poorly because of me?
My answer is most definately. Maybe that's clouded judgement . . . I don't want my girls to have to endure anything from him though. Him leaving is the best thing that could have happened to us. His father was always VERY verbally and emotional abusive to not only his wife . . but his children as well. I DO NOT WANT THAT FOR MY GIRLS.
So is there any action I can take. Where can I learn more about custody. . . I don't care if he has visitation and whatnot . . . and maybe after he shows that he's not going to treat them poorly he could change it . . .
I took it for three years and never made a peep . . I thought it would change. This is the first time I've really told anyone. . .
