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But for now at least, good riddance.
He is dysfunctional. He is a liar, a cheat and not even half the man those girls need to be their Daddy.




That is so true.

I am trying to deal with all of this.
I am trying to work my way through all of my emotions . .
so that I can be stable and happy for my girls.

I keep thinking that I am sad for them . . . but I know they will be better off.
We all will.
I can find another man who will love them as much as do.

I guess maybe I just wanted them to have BOTH biological parents because I never got either of mine and it's caused me a lot of pain.

That and you always read about the horrible effects of D on children.

Anyway. . .

What steps do I take . .
Other than breaking off contact with these people???
I've never fully been to this place before . . . I'm unsure of where to go.

Don't worry Amy . . I called the Domestic Relations people and asked them what was going on with my case. (I added Kiya) and I also gave them ALL his new info (as they haven't been able to locate him yet.)

I don't need to be in contact with a lawyer or anything though right?