Alright I've gotten myself all worked up and freaked out.
I've got myself convinced that he's doing all of this for the OW.
I gave him an ultimatum on Saturday (after I noticed the bruise) I told him if he was still seeing her he HAD to choose between us . . because I didn't want to stay with him if he was still sneaking around with her. I told him that it would really break my heart . . etc. and he needed to be a decent human being and decide. He of course went off about not being with her. But he's refused to change his in a relationship back to married since we got back together . . when I asked him about it . . he would only get angry and say that he was "in a relationship . . what does it matter." He always got REALLY mad.
Maybe she looks at it from time to time and he doesn't want to get caught. I'm wondering if he ever really went out on the road this past week. When I would ask him where he was he'd have to think really hard and when I asked where they were headed (I am interested in travel) he'd always say "I don't know."
