You did not feel ready for this and then he shows up with another freakin mark on his neck?! I'm sorry, but those "wrestling with my brother" excuses went out in high school.
Tell him to carry his ass up the road and that you are filing for child support on Monday! Then DO IT.
When he's ready to act like a real man, tell him you MIGHT want him. In the meantime, we'll help YOU to stand up.
He could do so much to make help you... *^@%^%*$^%%#&(_$%&%& But he does this!
If I were you, and God forgive me this might be wrong so please wait for another opinion, but I'd tell him not to let the door hit him in the ass on the way out.
I'm sorry, Emily. But you are way too special to be treated like this.